Best qualities for love in a couple

Loyalty leads with an ELO of 1,446, ahead of Respect (1,407) and Communication (1,381). Ranked over 4,893 duels between 20 contenders, last updated September 20, 2026.

Find out which quality is essential in a relationship: loyalty, communication, trust or humor? Vote for the most important value in love!

How this ranking is computed

Every duel won lifts a contender and every loss drops them, by an amount that depends on the opponent's strength: beating the leader is worth more than beating the last. It is an ELO, the same principle as in chess. Duels are not drawn at random — an adaptive entropy sort puts the least predictable match-ups first, which settles the ranking far faster than a full round robin. A worldwide ranking is only published past 30 completed plays. Known limit: a contender who has faced few opponents keeps an approximate score, and the bottom of the table moves more than the podium.